Encouraging Moms

Mom and kid. © by somiz

One thing that became evident to me after attending She Speaks was that God was calling me to give encouragement to moms who are not as far in the journey as I am. I don’t feel like I have anything to offer moms because I have not finished the race of motherhood. Quite frankly, I am not good at mothering all the time and do not consider myself an expert at all. However, just like I did not want to be responsible for the people on the plane, God whispers to me that He wants to guide me in this.

Hubby works away from home, and he can leave work there.  He is usually very good at it.  However, I work from home as a mom. Sometimes, all this pressure builds up about what I am or am not doing as a mother, even though I’ve learned to apply the salve of grace. For the mothers that read, I know you identify, right? I think the goal for me is to share what has worked for me or what my family life sometimes looks like. I also want to open the blog up for questions. If you will email with questions, I will answer them here. Like I said, I feel inadequate to do this, but every time I allow God to work in the weak areas of my life, He does a mighty work, so let’s watch Him do His thing…. :)

Sunday, I woke up thinking about our family. Call it that added pressure I just mentioned or call it conviction (I think it was a little of both), but I was telling my hubby that I was not happy with how our family was working. Now I have regularly felt that mommy guilt, but I was feeling off track, like we were not on the path that God wants for our family about some minor things. God was totally preparing to speak to us at church because the sermon was about children and investing in them.

I want to share the notes and link to the sermon because I want to review it in the future, and I hope it will give encouragement to some moms out there.

Psalm 127

Unless the Lord builds the house,
its builders labor in vain.
Unless the Lord watches over the city,
the watchmen stand guard in vain.
In vain you rise early
and stay up late,
toiling for food to eat—
for he grants sleep to those he loves.

Sons are a heritage from the Lord,
children a reward from him.
Like arrows in the hands of a warrior
are sons born in one’s youth.
Blessed is the man
whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame
when they contend with their enemies in the gate.

Listen to T.D. Hall online. Click on July 29, 2012 sermon by T. D. Hall.

Notes from the Sermon:

  1. God is Always Building – (v.1a) If you want to be successful, find out what God’s doing and join Him. God builds not with bricks or stones, but with people. He builds with families and churches. Jesus is also a builder.
  2. God Protects what He Builds – (v.1b) The church and family should be a safe place. Use our authority for God to make others safe and protected. However, as children of God, if we get “in sin,” we are not under God’s protection.
  3. God Builds with Ease (v.2) when you go with God, you can work without stress. He empowers us and gives strength, giving grace upon grace.  Matt 11:28-29 Accept your assignment with excitement.
  4. God Builds with Children – Children are a good inheritance and reward.

a.  Value Children – (v.3) We welcome them; we birth them; we adopt them. Expand and have as many children as you can, including spiritual children. You will have opportunities to prove that you value children. Some people are looking for spiritual mothers and fathers.

b. Train Them – (v.4) Men made arrows in those days by hand. They had to make sure they were straight, would point in the right direction, and then they polished them.  Psalm 78:2-8  One generation prepares one generation and so on and so on. Spend one on one time with each child. Ask the Lord for wisdom and tell them the stories of God’s work in your life.  Point them: have them make goals. Polish them: give them Scripture to memorize.

c. Release Them – (v.5) Release in ministry, in life, in marriage.

      1. Bless them – encourage them in every way you can. Let them know they are favored of God.
      2. Be willing to invest in them (with time, with finances), expect good returns. Lead them to have a heart for the kingdom.

With those you are responsible for, speak blessings to them.

Linking with On Your Heart Tuesday, Soli Deo Gloria, Teach Me Tuesdays, and Titus 2sdays.

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...


  1. soulstops says:

    lots of wisdom here, Jaime…especially about joining what God is doing…blessings :)

  2. Parenting is one of the hardest most frustrating and most rewarding of jobs. It can bring you many highs and even many lows. The invaluable lessons I have learned in parenting have allowed me to learn so much more about my relationship with the Lord. My children are just who the Lord intended for me to make me into who He wants me to be.

  3. “Mommy guilt,” a tough challenge to overcome. There always is – and always will be – something to bring out the guilt, the inadequacies, the apparent failures. But, as you said, we invest in our children, day in day out in small and large ways. I liked your thought about not being responsible for the people on the plane. It’s not that obvious in our homes, but the responsibility is the Lord’s. Our job is to trust Him. Thank you!

  4. i’ve felt that same nuding at dif. times, too. love to see you responding to the Lord about it.
    and the timing is so neat b/c our pastor recently started a series about passing onto the next generation, too. such good challenges . . .

    looking fwd to seeing all the wonderful ways the Lord’s going to use you in this arena,

  5. I love the point that God builds with ease. We can be excited about what He is doing & what He is asking us to do because it’s easy when we are seeking Him for the steps, words and thoughts each day… Thanks for sharing! 

  6. Alicia Bruxvoort says:

    Oh, thank you. I LOVE this- and wish I could have sat beside you and heard the whole sermon. Thanks for sharing your notes. The point on God building with ease seems revolutionary for me. If it feels out-of-sync and stressful, then perhaps I’m not building WITH HIM in the moment- that’s an incredible thing to remember as we head back into another crazy school year with our five kids. Thanks for speaking out and encouraging moms! So glad you did. Blessings from a mom in Iowa! (Stopping by from SDG today and thrilled to have met you).

    BTW, love your scripture choice- God gave me that verse just hours before I discovered I was pregnant with my “surprise gift” baby number five- after He’d spoken that clear word in His Word, I could only laugh and embrace another “arrow” as our quiver grew fuller :)

Leave a Reply

%d bloggers like this: